Dear Tico Times:
I read the letter “Gringo, Go Home” with a sadness of heart. The generalizations, the labeling and the misinformation reminded me of similar letters I had seen in the United States written by people attacking Hispanic immigrants for being in the U.S.
I am married to a beautiful Costa Rican who came to me with her three sons – our sons. It has been my privilege to raise them with my wife. In so doing, we have been able to provide them with improved circumstances to plan and live their lives.
Many of my Gringo friends are in similar circumstances, and their parenting adds opportunity for many young Costa Ricans, a not-so-insignificant contribution to the future of the country.
My oldest son had the good fortune this last holiday season to be given seasonal employment at Gollo, a good Costa Rican company, and we are grateful for the opportunity. He worked hard, learned a lot from his supervisors and was paid a fair wage typical for a beginner at an unskilled job. I mention this because a number of my Gringo friends have businesses here and employ hundreds of Ticos. They typically start their new employees at a wage fully 50 percent higher than that paid to our son. This does not seem to me to be underpaying workers.
Many of my Gringo friends give an extraordinary number of hours of their time helping others who are struggling in their lives. I do not exaggerate when I say their mentoring saves lives, many of them Tico lives. And a number of my friends regularly and anonymously donate money to organizations such as the foundation run by Gayle Nystrom, the one positive mention in that letter.
As I write this, I more fully understand that a large part of my sadness is for the writer of that letter for he apparently has had a sad experience living here. And this makes me ever so much more grateful for the wonderful experiences I have been having here.
I guess we find what we seek. Thank you to all my Tico and Gringo friends.
Robert Holloway
Saturday March 03 2012